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Laws of attraction

Started by Shady, 15 October, 2025, 17:11:52

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Shady

Is it just me or one's age of attraction could change based on their mood and mentality? I don't know if my mental conditions have anything to do with it, but sometimes, I find a 5 year old attractive, sometimes not. This also works for me regarding my view of adults, like I found some good looking at times, but not always. Could it be that age of attraction is just as fluid as gender and sexuality?

Driver247

For me it is not the age of the girl but the girl herself that I'm attracted to. Sometimes when looking at cp or just porn in general I can see two different girls in the same pose but I may not be attracted to one but the other one I'll think is really hot. So I have to say it's always the girl not the age of the girl. 
Some of us just weren't meant for the so called "normal" we see far beyond what is forced upon us as "their" idea of living. We live within our own hearts and minds.

                    Normal is a Illusion
What is normal for the spider is chaos for the fly

Lillab

Oh absolutely, I find it all to be very fluid and that makes it very hard for me to pin down. Sometimes I feel no attraction for boys, and sometimes almost as strong as I feel for girls. Sometimes I am more in the mood for the younger side, and sometimes for the older side. My sexual appetite is frequently shifting, about as much as my appetite for food. There is definitely a current mood component. Another factor is the fact that jamming your cock up a small immature hole would be painful for both sides, making it a turn off on multiple levels, so when I am feeling a desire for connection on that level, my age of attraction gets much older. In fact, very frequently when I am fantasizing, I am more in the mood for younger in the beginning of the session and older towards the end. As if I want a partner that grows as you pleasure her.

And then of course there are many components beyond just age, gender, and even looks. The more someone likes my attractions, the more I find them attractive too. I'm not drawn to adults, and yet I'd be willing to date a pedo. Unfortunately, that's nearly impossible to find, and incredibly risky.

EllieLover

Attraction is based on lust. Lust is based on arousal.

In other words, when you're horny or in a general frisky mood (think peak of summer) your range of attraction gets broader and you're quicker to notice and look at things you find attractive. When you've just finished a 24 hour masturbation binge and set a new world record, you're a lot less preoccupied with sex and attraction.

So TLDR, yes it's completely based on mood and mentality.

OneLove

It's definitely fluid. As I get older, my AoA has risen, beginning at the budding of breasts and the whole puberty process. But as stated above, it also depends on the girl. As with women, personality eventually trumps physical attraction.
"Nothing can perhaps be justly called unnatural which nature prompts us to do. If others don't like them, they are not natural to them, and no one should force them to act them."
My Secret Life, by Anonymous, pub. 1888

Driver247

I do have to say that sometimes my attraction does differ. Boys for example. For the most part I have never been attracted to boys or any male. Sometimes I'll see two boys giving each other a BJ and I won't give it a second look. Then there are days I will think to myself that looks like it would be a fun thing to do. I guess to just depends on my mood and how horny I am at the time. A girl will always, always trump a boy though. When I see a pretty girl to me she is the most beautiful thing in the world and all I can think about is what it would be like to have her in bed with me!! Her age doesn't matter to me.
Some of us just weren't meant for the so called "normal" we see far beyond what is forced upon us as "their" idea of living. We live within our own hearts and minds.

                    Normal is a Illusion
What is normal for the spider is chaos for the fly

TooLittleTime

For me it is definitely personality and driven by other factors.

My age of physical attraction is for girl on the cusp of development and up. It is so much easier to define it this way rather than age as some girls don't bud until fairly late, and some amazingly early :)

But I do find some flat chested girls sexually attractive, so I have pedo tendencies, but the vast majority are girls as described above.

I have always liked broken things.

Shady

One detail I also want to add is that I don't find someone attractive unless they're completely naked. I'm talking about no fabric, though some accessories like piercing or tattoo could be acceptable or make it even better. This actually makes it easier for me to navigate in real life because not always you see a kid fully naked.

Quote from: EllieLover on 17 October, 2025, 08:29:06Attraction is based on lust. Lust is based on arousal.
To be frank, I find this quote a bit off. Like not all attraction is based on lust. You are attracted to something or someone not always because you wanna fuck 'em, but could be because they're intellectually interesting or emotionally resonates with you. Attraction could also stem from comfort or compatibility, like how you're attracted to your bed when you're sleepy or attracted to your best friend because he has full pokemon collection.

Quote from: EllieLover on 17 October, 2025, 08:29:06In other words, when you're horny or in a general frisky mood (think peak of summer) your range of attraction gets broader and you're quicker to notice and look at things you find attractive. When you've just finished a 24 hour masturbation binge and set a new world record, you're a lot less preoccupied with sex and attraction.
You're onto something in the first half, but I honestly don't think my attraction change only after a successful nut. I am also one of those guys who would recover quite fast from post nut clarity, so...yeah.

Quote from: Lillab on 15 October, 2025, 23:04:40In fact, very frequently when I am fantasizing, I am more in the mood for younger in the beginning of the session and older towards the end. As if I want a partner that grows as you pleasure her.
Now that's a kink I'm into. The thought of fucking a girl while her body is rapidly growing, and those tits and ass just pops out, and her holes become more fitting to your liking and more responsive to your touch. Same for boys, the thought of their dick and balls enlarge and whop forward vulgarly.


fffanatic

I honestly thought the thread was about The Secret, Law Of Attraction, you will attract stuff if you are thankful and you keep a positive mindset.

But overall I agree it is fluid. Not all young ladies within my AoA are attractive, it is always about the person.
"The fields have eyes and the woods have ears" - Geoffrey Chaucer.

Shady

Quote from: fffanatic on 25 October, 2025, 01:01:40I honestly thought the thread was about The Secret, Law Of Attraction, you will attract stuff if you are thankful and you keep a positive mindset.

I was channeling Sir Isaac Newton with that naming lol

OneLove

Quote from: Shady on 28 October, 2025, 02:57:30
Quote from: fffanatic on 25 October, 2025, 01:01:40I honestly thought the thread was about The Secret, Law Of Attraction, you will attract stuff if you are thankful and you keep a positive mindset.

I was channeling Sir Isaac Newton with that naming lol
I'm sure Sir Isaac would approve. It is evolutionarily advantageous to begin breeding young.
"Nothing can perhaps be justly called unnatural which nature prompts us to do. If others don't like them, they are not natural to them, and no one should force them to act them."
My Secret Life, by Anonymous, pub. 1888

NotPennysBoat

I've always found attraction to depend on a great intangible, like one never knows exactly what it is. And as mainly a GL, I go through brief BL periods. I guess I'll never know for sure. AoA has always been subject to an occasional exception.
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