Gave him sex to avoid prosecution

[Whyme]

I was apprehended for shoplifting when I was in college. The security guard told me he was going to call the police, which would have caused my expulsion from my program of study.

I agreed to have sex with him in exchange for me going free. Seemed like a no-brainer at the time. Still does, actually.

[Matthew1914]

Sounds like the set-up for a lot of the porn I have seen. And everyone got something out of it. So, no harm, no foul I guess. Was he a Paul Blart type? Or, did you kind of enjoy it?

[on the rocks]

Boy you had a knack for running into people abusing their authority, Whyme.

[Whyme]

Sounds like the set-up for a lot of the porn I have seen. And everyone got something out of it. So, no harm, no foul I guess. Was he a Paul Blart type? Or, did you kind of enjoy it?

He was not an attractive man in any way, honestly. I just did what I had to do, I guess. I didn't get one ounce of pleasure from it, I just did it to stay out of trouble.

Boy you had a knack for running into people abusing their authority, Whyme.

I offered it to him if he wouldn't call the cops. Admittedly, not my proudest moment. I think he would have just called the cops and ruined my life with no problem, but it was my idea to use my sexuality to get out of trouble.

But to your point...yes, I do believe that some people are able to identify a potential victim. You know? That social worker was a predator. I am sure that she assumed that I was an easy target for her, and I was.

The shoplifting situation could actually be seen as ME abusing his authority. Actually both of these situations could be seen that way?? I allowed myself to be 'used' to get something in both cases...?

To your point though...you may or may not be surprised how many older men that will gladly abuse their authority to have a young girl suck their cock or whatever, so long as they never have any consequences. I would guess 60%? Higher? Maybe 75%?


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[Robotboy]

Sounds like a no brainer to me. I likely would have done it too to stay out of trouble.

Although I agree it sounds almost like a porn setup. I'm against force so even if I had the ability, I wouldn't force anyone. But I wonder what I would do if I ever become a security guard and catch a cute boy who offers.

[Cartographer]

Boy you had a knack for running into people abusing their authority, Whyme.

Obviously a testament to how irresistible young Whyme was!

[Whyme]

But I wonder what I would do if I ever become a security guard and catch a cute boy who offers.

With no consequences, I have a feeling you would whip it out!

[TooLittleTime]

This seems to be a common enough real life theme.

I have head a few stories from women about leveraging their sexuality to stay out of (perceived) trouble. Two of the stories involved security guards so I figured I would mention them here...

One was a 11yo girl playing hide and seek with friends at an apartment complex. She was hiding in an unlocked storage room when the security guard walked in. He told her she should not be in there - which was true, and that he needed to report her to her parents. She balked at this, and he could tell. He told her "If you let me touch you, I won't tell." Well to this little 11yo old, she really didn't understand what he meant. It seemed an easy out, so she agreed. Well, touching meant him rubbing her on her chest and crotch over her clothes. When she didn't object, he went under her t-shirt and then down the front of her pants. He didn't finger her she said, but he "really dug in there." She felt like more would have happened but something distracted him and he just left. He was true to his word and didn't tell her parents. The warning for guys contemplating this, when the girl was older, in her late teens, she had a boyfriend in his early twenties that she had told the story to and he actually figured out who this guy was and beat him up. Better than prosecution by LE.

The second story was a girl in ninth grade - exact age unremembered, she said she was walking home with a friend after school and shoplifting from a store in a strip mall. From there they walk around the end and behind the mall, and then into a little cubby with concrete walls that hid them from view. While going through their loot, a young security guard walked in the space they were in. Her friend immediately ran, and she said she 'froze', so she was stuck alone with this guy. Though all the stuff they had stolen was in her back pack, he insisted on patting her down, which she said he had very friendly hands. She repeatedly begged him to just let her go. He told her "Only if I can see you naked," which in desperation to not get into more trouble (she was a troubled kid) she agreed to. She admitted he was young and good looking, so she was more wiling to the idea, since it was 'a young guy', who would see her this way. After she stripped, he had her face the wall and patted her down again. Even she laughed at this, given it was entirely unnecessary to find anything. He then had intercourse with her from behind, which she correctly stated was rape, except 'he was young and being really nice' and she admitted feeling very confused about the whole thing. She said she physically enjoyed it, as she was not close to being a virgin. He was super nice afterwards, letting her keep the stuff she had taken. She said it was just very odd, he almost acting like they had been on a date or something. More weirdly in her mind, she thought about going back there to look for him later, but her girlfriend talked her out of it.

[Whyme]

More weirdly in her mind, she thought about going back there to look for him later, but her girlfriend talked her out of it.

I find this part interesting. It's the old "if it was so bad, why did you keep going back" thing?

Any thoughts on why girls do this? I did it a few times myself.

[Matthew1914]

I find this part interesting. It's the old "if it was so bad, why did you keep going back" thing?

Any thoughts on why girls do this? I did it a few times myself.

Oh, I have many, many thoughts on this. But, I will try and keep it concise.

Cindy Lauper is echoing through my head singing Girls Just Want to have Fun. The whole "Bad Boy" thing is fun, it is exciting, it is an adventure. And, when he gives you attention, even when it is abusive, it satisfies a deep seated need to be seen, noticed, and wanted. The feminine also experiences an irresistible drive to nurture and "fix" a boy. This combination manifests in the bizarre and frustrating behavior of women staying with, and returning to their asshole partners.

Nice Guys do it too. We will stay with a woman, fawn over her, even if she is dismissive, critical, even cruel. Because, we put women on pedestals, as society tells us to do. That is sold to us as the formula to get affection. And we will endure endless hardships to acquire just a little bit of the feminine attention.

I cannot say that I understand the psychology completely. Even the professionals struggle to characterize the "Bad Boy" phenomenon. Suffice to say it is pervasive and primal. The feminine, especially when young, are drawn to the strong, irreverent, independent, dominant energy of the unabashed masculine. It is as much nature as the atmosphere moving from a place of high pressure, to low pressure, usually resulting in a storm...

[Whyme]

I find this part interesting. It's the old "if it was so bad, why did you keep going back" thing?

Any thoughts on why girls do this? I did it a few times myself.

Oh, I have many, many thoughts on this. But, I will try and keep it concise.

Cindy Lauper is echoing through my head singing Girls Just Want to have Fun. The whole "Bad Boy" thing is fun, it is exciting, it is an adventure. And, when he gives you attention, even when it is abusive, it satisfies a deep seated need to be seen, noticed, and wanted. The feminine also experiences an irresistible drive to nurture and "fix" a boy. This combination manifests in the bizarre and frustrating behavior of women staying with, and returning to their asshole partners.

Nice Guys do it too. We will stay with a woman, fawn over her, even if she is dismissive, critical, even cruel. Because, we put women on pedestals, as society tells us to do. That is sold to us as the formula to get affection. And we will endure endless hardships to acquire just a little bit of the feminine attention.

I cannot say that I understand the psychology completely. Even the professionals struggle to characterize the "Bad Boy" phenomenon. Suffice to say it is pervasive and primal. The feminine, especially when young, are drawn to the strong, irreverent, independent, dominant energy of the unabashed masculine. It is as much nature as the atmosphere moving from a place of high pressure, to low pressure, usually resulting in a storm...

Please don't forget that there is also a distinct feeling (at least there was for me) for some girls about enjoying the degradation and humiliation.

[TooLittleTime]

More weirdly in her mind, she thought about going back there to look for him later, but her girlfriend talked her out of it.

I find this part interesting. It's the old "if it was so bad, why did you keep going back" thing?

Any thoughts on why girls do this? I did it a few times myself.

I was going to write a long response but Matthew1914 handled the 'bad boy' perspective perfectly.

Some women talking about their underage sexual experiences have said it was purely the sex. They liked it, regardless of circumstances, and wouldn't mind more. It took me a long time to wrap my mind around woman as independent sexual creatures, who could go out and have sex just for the fun of it. Not sure why I struggled with that. Even if they were a 13yo and they were dealing with a man, horny is horny. Especially once they have been exposed to the pleasures of sex. Age discrimination in partners is a thing, but honestly, I have been able to attract women far younger than me, and I really don't get it. Supposedly society frowns on this but when it happens within legal age limits, close friends and family are usually pretty accepting (though not always). And I went pretty far along in age and managed to be attractive in some way to underage girls in their teens as well, though that did become more and more rare as time went by. Sadly, often these young beauties were driven by loneliness, but other times it was just their personality, often outgoing and carefree. One of the beauties of youth is open-mindedness.

One thing I get is being physically intimate with someone can make an immediate weird connection. Despite my lifestyle my whole life, I have never been a fuck them and forget them person. If I am intimate in practically any way, I start forming an emotional bond. I think a lot of females are like this.

[Whyme]

If I am intimate in practically any way, I start forming an emotional bond. I think a lot of females are like this.

Most females are like that. We are hardwired to form emotional bonds after experiencing orgasm. Our body actually releases a 'bonding' hormone during orgasm.